Over the past couple of months
I’ve been busy with, among other things, writing-related commitments. In September I visited the Dick
Institute in Kilmarnock for an event called ‘Kilmarnock Voices’ in which myself
and writers David Ross (The Last Days of
Disco) and Frank Beattie, aka ‘Mandy Stafford’ (The Dandelion in the Glass) all read from our first novels then
took questions from the audience. Librarian Margaret Patterson chaired the
event. Although the books all have an Ayrshire setting they are otherwise very
different in style and theme. However, one question raised the matter of
writing from the point of view of the opposite sex and this resulted in a
thought-provoking discussion on the matter, to which all three of us contributed.
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| With David Ross (left) and Frank Beattie outside the Dick Institute. |
I’ve been thinking on and off
about this since. There are famous examples of male writers who are not thought
to write women well and vice versa. It is a topic that relates to that old
question of whether it is better to write about ‘what you know’. But it also
presupposes that women and men are inherently different, or at least experience
life in a different way – such that they cannot truly recreate what it is like
to be a member of the opposite sex. All I know is that there are plenty of
female characters created by male writers who I have found convincing. Thinking
of the ‘classics’, Dickens gets a lot of stick for his women but Lady Deadlock
in Bleak House has a depth which is
well conveyed. Then again, many of my
favourite female characters have been written by women – practically all of Jane
Austen’s women, attractive or not so, are believable and brilliantly observed,
even if their concerns are very different from those of women today. The real answer
is probably the dull one – some men can write women well and some women can
write men well but overall, each sex
probably writes characters of their own gender better.
The
second of my recent writing commitments was a visit to a reading group who had
read Beauty Tips. It was an
interesting experience, not least because I hadn’t been to a reading group
before. They are reading a wide range of fiction and non-fiction and I got a
few recommendations for non-fiction in particular which I’d not heard about. Do No Harm was one of their top tips. I’ve
added it to my list and am looking forward to reading it. There was also a lot of
discussion about writing and publishing and a lot of interest in the editing
process. All of this was washed down with hot drinks and snacks which, on a
cold winter night straight after work, was very welcome.
Last but not least, I did an
interview with writer Rosemary Gemmell this month, for her blog Reading and Writing. Her questions got
me thinking and also introduced me to her excellent blog. Rosemary is
a talented writer with a long list of novels for adults and ‘tweens’ to her
name. Her most recent novel is The
Highland Lass. She is very active in
supporting other writers, both through her on-line work and in her capacity as
a long-standing member of Erskine Writers’ Club. You can find her blog here. http://ros-readingandwriting.blogspot.co.uk/

"Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Kilmarnock."
ReplyDeleteMy understanding is that men and women aren't as different as some say, and discovering the presence of both genders in our being, is part of our drive to wholeness.
I applaud anyone who explores this via writing.
"You are a woman just as you are a man."
- Liz Fraser, Seekers who are lovers.
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:o) ... Thank you for reminding me about the excellent Cocteau Twins, Valis. (Think Mr Jung would have agreed with you all :o).)
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